I'm so glad you made your way here! 

There are a variety of ways to engage with me and my work depending on what you are looking for.

Ways to work with me include ~

As an Embodiment and Somatic Sexuality Guide, my work holds 2 branches. One branch is as a facilitator of the Deep Body Model, the other is as a guide of the Embodied PsychoSexual Method. I am certified in both modalities and offer a broad range of tools in holistic healing, expressive arts, somatic embodiment and emotional healing techniques that I fuse into working within these modalities. See a description of offerings below ~

If we work together 


I promise to see you as whole and complete. 


I promise to give you the best that I have to give. 


I promise to provide a loving space for the discovery of your True Self with my undivided attention. 


I promise to hold a non-judgemental, safe, supportive and empathetic container for your transformation.


I promise to hold you accountable to what you wish to create and experience in your life in a gentle yet effective way.


I promise to attune to your most AUTHENTIC self and provide the bridge to the EMBODIMENT of that which already lives within you.

"Sexuality is one of the ways that we become enlightened, actually, because it leads us to self-knowledge." ~ Alice Walker

Guided Somatic Embodiment Journey with the Deep Body Model

As I Deep Body Model facilitator, I guide people into opening the different levels of body (cognitive, physical, emotional, sensual, expressive, perceptive and ancestral/archetypal) through breath, sound, movement, and imagery. This practice allows the participant to experience a deeper connection to the intelligence of their body through emotional release, intuitive insight, somatic healing, and freeing innate expression. Participants often report experiences of opening, release of pain (physical and emotional), mental clarity around problems or life direction, an experience of connection with ancestors/archetypes/animal spirits and elements of the earth.

 

This methodology is helpful for anyone looking to transform any life or health issue they may be experiencing through somatic means, where your body is treated as a wise ally that is trying to communicate to you for your empowerment and healing. I help you listen and receive the messages your deep body and inner psyche is sending.

 

This method is helpful for people going through ~

And who are wanting ~

Within this Deep Body Model Journey you will experience being guided into your body and emotional landscape through a variety of somatic techniques. I weave together tools of embodiment and emotional healing to assist you in opening pathways into a deeper connection with your body, psyche and self. Throughout the experience, you will be guided in letting your body speak through movement, breath, sound and embodied imagery. Your innate connection to Earth, Animals, Elements, Ancestors and Archetypes will be uncovered as your body shows you the way.

What people are saying

“Haley’s voice, attunement, permission, languaging & guidance, all supported my feeling safe and truly open to new levels of pleasure and embodiment. She’s got ALL THE SAUCE!”
Jade Fusco 
Vocalist & Performance Artist 
“I felt that I was totally seen and free of any judgment but at the same time I felt safe. I felt somehow transported and a lot happened in me and I feel much lighter and freer now. Thank you from all my Heart!” 
Valerie Caminada
Make-Up Artist/Vegan Chef
“ I love how Haley holds space. The explanation and the context she gave helped me to sink into my body. She set the energy herself as a portal for me to sink in to as well. The world needs this!!”
Celeste December
CREATIVE DIRECTOR of Capture My Spirit

When our sexuality is not tended to, it tends to be an achilles heel ~

that dissatisfaction is always looming and feels scary to turn towards it

~ but it doesn’t go away.

When you are able to turn towards your sexuality in ways that are

embodied and authentic, it gives you a kind of energy that makes

life worth living ~

because you have something primal filling you.

 

A 6-week course to help men redefine their masculinity and

embody their POWER, DESIRE and VULNERABILITY —

in the bedroom, in business, and in life.

 

July 16, 2025 ~ August 20, 2025

 

$600 early bird rate before July 3rd

$700 July 4th ~ July 9th

$800 July 10th - July 16th

This is for the man who’s done the mindset work—but knows there’s something deeper ~ shadow work, emotional healing, somatic work.

 

Maybe you’re sick of suppressing your emotions, and still can’t figure out how to express them in a healthy way.

 

Maybe your success feels empty.

 

Maybe your sex life feels like pressure, stale, or never truly satisfying.

 

Maybe you’re tired of trying hard in relationships but no matter how hard you try, the connection you truly desire escapes you. Or you end up isolating from the ones you love the most. Or outbursting and regretting it.

 

You’re not broken.

 

You were just never taught how to tune into your body and inner being in an empowering way. Most men are taught to disconnect from your body, your emotions, and your truth ~ that your sole purpose is to work and be productive. Which leads to a less than fulfilling life.

 

This course is your invitation.

Into building true intimacy with yourself and others.

Into expanding your ability to give and receive pleasure.

Into speaking your truth and holding space for others.

Into a life that deeply satisfies, in all arenas.

 

Into a connection with your true self, the one that lives on the other side of the fears, conditioning and pressures that have been holding you back.

 

Too many men live trapped in a silent war — swinging between performance anxiety, emotional shutdown, and the endless chase for validation through work and sex. Yet there is another way.

 

This space is for men who are ready to do the somatic work — to reconnect with their sexual energy, evolve their hearts, and their power. No gimmicks. No bravado.

 

Just real transformation, and a new way of living from the inside out.

 

 Here's the Key :

 

1. You Are Not Inadequate ~ What if nothing is wrong with you—but the way you were taught about sex is the issue?

 

2. Our Emotions Can be Allies ~ When you know how to process your emotions in an embodied way, they can become a source of guidance and empowerment.

 

3. Sexual Mastery Is About Presence, Not Performance ~ Confidence in bed isn’t about ‘performing’—it’s about presence. Mastering this changes everything.

 

4.You're Not Suppose to Do This Alone ~ Transformation is best achieved in a supportive community with skilled facilitation. Seeing that others have similar struggles and transforming those struggles together rather than in isolation, is the key to embodied power.

 

When you learn tools to shed harmful messages around sex, emotions and work and learn to cultivate your energy, grow it and flow it into all other areas of your life ~ your energy, confidence, and drive to pursue what you WANT will GROW.

 

You’ve done the mindset work, but you're ready to go deeper with the embodiment work. This is the missing piece my friend! When you ground the transformation you seek IN THE BODY through somatic practice, this is when you truly experience the shift you have known is possible.

 

We give you the tools to truly step into your masculine power and sexuality with integrity and embodiment. So it's not a concept, but a deeply felt state inside you.

 

Your Guides

Part guide, part mischief-maker, and fully committed to the art of transformation, Daryl Henderson has spent years chasing wisdom across the globe—from the depths of the Amazon to remote monasteries in Asia, from firelit gatherings with indigenous elders to men’s circles that crack open the soul.

 

Trained in men’s work, spirit-psyche integration, and enough holistic modalities to make a skeptic sweat, Daryl doesn’t do surface-level change. He’s here to help you uncover what’s been hiding in plain sight—your genius, your power, your truest self.

 

Expect deep work, unexpected laughter, and the occasional reminder that life doesn’t have to be so damn serious.

 

As certified embodiment and somatic sexuality guide, and creative facilitator, Haley helps people access a deeper connection to body, sex and self. Playful, direct, fierce, loving and kind, Haley embodies the dualities that are necessary for deep transformation.

 

She assist people to unearth their bodies' innate wisdom, sensuality and wholeness and has been called an “emotional widwife”, creating transformational experiences in a safe and loving container for the last 15 years in-person, online and internationally.

 

Expect to be guided into your body in a way that brings you home deeply to yourself and your connection to creation.

"In experiencing Haley’s potency, she radically leveled up my relationship to my body, my sexuality, and my masculinity. Her insights and advice were fundamental to the evolution of my core teachings of consent, power-awareness, harm-reduction, and attunement. Haley Wilson made me a better man. If you have the opportunity to work with her, I hope you do it. You won’t regret it."   

Mischa Byruck of Evolve.men

Embodied Sexuality 

 A 12 week Coaching Container

(open to all genders)

$2400 ~ payment plans available

This experience is for Professionals, Athletes, Creatives, & Entrepreneurs — who are ready to transform their sexual life into a gateway of deeper pleasure, fulfillment and fun! Where your SEXUALITY becomes a source of vitality and creative inspiration.

Are you longing to ...

*Come HOME to your Body and Sexuality

*Discover your Erotic Intelligence

*Transform the way your body responds to sexual exploration

*Transmute your “Dysfunction” into deeper pleasure and embodiment

*Release shame and embody your sexuality with confidence

*AND Juice UP your LIFE with sexual vitality!

THEN KEEP READING

So maybe you have been told you have a sexual dysfunction??? Or you’ve told yourself you have a dysfunction... Honestly if "dysfunction" means that your genitals don't always "work right" and you are experiencing some kind of challenge sexually, then when you look at the numbers, the majority of the population is "dysfunctional". And most “cures” are clinical and cold: pills, talk therapy, gadgets. . .

Maybe it's not that we're all dysfunctional, maybe it's something else...

What I KNOW is this BIG SECRET: 

A - The PERCEPTION that you have a sexual dysfunction is INCORRECT and is part of what is keeping you stuck. What is actually going on is that your body is trying to communicate things to you, something essential for you to hear and understand in order for your body to start functioning again. 

B - The REAL, LASTING “cure” is cultivating pleasure. More pleasure than you can IMAGINE! And YES we can cultivate pleasure whether or not our genitals are "working" how you want them too.

My METHOD :

An embodied, non-judgmental, pleasure-focused and non-clinical approach to transforming and dissolving sexual dysfunction in any body, regardless of gender.

In this programs you will receive 10 personalized sessions using a combination of the ~

Embodied PsychoSexual Method ~ a researched method proven effective at dismantling the physiological and somatic blocks to embodying our pleasure and authentic sexual expression ~ 

and the 

Deep Body Model ~ a somatic embodiment method that assists you in opening the different layers and levels of your body to clear shame/trauma/holding patterns at the deepest level and truly inhabit your body and your pleasure in an experiential way.

Why is a SOMATIC approach crucial to transforming your relationship to your sexuality? 

Because where is your sexuality experienced? 

IN YOUR BODY. So we have to actually feel, inhabit and BE PRESENT in our bodies to, feel, inhabit and be present in our sexuality and pleasure. 

Many other approaches to sex therapy DO NOT include a somatic or embodied approach – they include recommendations like going to a sex shop to spice it up, or endlessly talking about the problem instead of somatically moving it through the body so it can be integrated and released.

In this approach we source YOUR BODY and YOUR INNATE EROTIC INTELLIGENCE to guide the process of coming home to yourself and an authentic expression of YOUR sexuality.

After this program

You will feel more at HOME in your own skin.

You will have the ability to listen to your body and understand it’s messages.

You will feel EMBODIED, as in able to actually feel, track and expand sensations of pleasure.

You will understand that EPIC sex is about exploration, erotic energy, and presence. You will be able to feel these states in your own body, expanding pleasure for you and those you choose to share with.

WHY ME? 

I overcame repeated sexual trauma and sexual pain through these methods and have spent years helping others to do that too, and I can help you too! (read some testimonials below!)

WHY NOW?

If not NOW then when? Like really? How long does sexuality need to wind up on your back burner? As long as it does, ALL areas of your life will continue to suffer, it will continue to be your achilles heal. When you decide it’s time to shift this, which is 100% possible, every area of your life will improve ~ because your SEXUAL ENERGY IS YOUR LIFE FORCE ENERGY.

When our life force is turned on and flowing, we feel LIT UP from the inside out and our life becomes fulfilled beyond external forces.

I SPECIALIZE in working with: - ED, EE, dryness, pain, trauma, and low libido.

I am a certified practitioner of the Embodied PsychoSexual Method and Deep Body Model. A certified Holistic Health Coach with 20 years of experience in the field of somatics, embodiment, shadow work, holistic healing, transforming trauma and emotional healing. I fuse all of these tools together in a dynamic and effective approach to assisting you in coming home to your body, your sexuality and your unique EROTIC GENIUS!

This Program Includes ~

Weekly 1:1 Coaching Session Via Zoom : Each week we will dive into the content of that week, attune to your body and listen to what is alive for you in your process. I will assess what will most greatly serve you — whether that be a guided somatic embodiment journey, an emotional healing process, coaching through a problem, or a bit of all of it! You will be given simple HomePlay activities to integrate the work.

Personal access to me Via WhatsApp : I will be available to support you with anything that pops up in between our sessions and will respond within 12/18 hours of your message (depending on our time difference)

Recorded Videos and Audios : You will get VIP access to my unique Embodiment Practices, Taoist Sexual Cultivation techniques and Guided Meditations.

Resources : You will receive a resource list of the BEST apps, books, podcasts and techniques I have discovered in my years of study and cultivation. 

 

(I give highly personalized attention and thus only accept 2 clients per month. This call is for both of us to get to know each other and see if it feels like a good fit to work together.)

“Haley created a very safe container. After each sessions I couldn’t believe it, the experience seemed to seep in more and more to my body. It really helped me to feel more connected to my own pleasure and love making! I climaxed several times after my sessions with Haley while making love to my partner at the time. This was something that previously took a lot of effort."


Delani

Embodied Sexuality is NOT for you IF ~

  • If you are not willing to acknowledge, investigate, and feel your pain, blockages, and fears (the only way out is through)
  • If you expect a quick fix and aren't willing to show up consistently to our sessions 
  • If you are not willing to implement HomePlay practices (around 15 min a day)
  • You want to blame others and aren't willing to take responsibility for your own transformation
  • Have an aversion to meditation, moving your body, or somatic practice (breath, sound, movement, visualization)
  • You don't believe that the transformation you desire IS POSSIBLE (this will inevitably keep you from experiencing it)

Embodied Sexuality IS for YOU if ~

  • You are willing to feel, express and be with your pain in a loving and compassionate way (I will be with you each step of the way)
  • You are willing to move your body and give your body permission to express in new ways
  • You are willing to shift your perspective about sexuality, your experiences, your body, and your genitals 
  • You are willing to spend 15 min a day on HomePlay activities I recommend for your integration and growth
  • You are willing to expand your definition around pleasure, sex, and erotic energy
  • You are LIT UP by the possibility of transforming your relationship to your body and sexuality to one of deepened authenticity, pleasure and freedom!

If this is YOU, click the link and let's have a chat!

 

"I found my work with Haley very helpful. It has really helped me reframe into a somatic and pleasure centered lens, where I can view that as a practice, and sex as a celebration or practice of that, rather than an area where I am flawed or broken. I feel like those first few sessions we did in particular were so helpful to me, and have stuck with me in a deep way even when I am not actively practicing them. Really really helpful to me."

Tarik

This Work is for

You If :

Then What I have is for YOU!

If you have found your way here it’s because something inside of you is calling out for support, for a change ~ for more pleasure, power and peace. I have journeyed deeply into the realms of sexual reclamation, embodied healing, and transforming my pain into power for the last 20 years. I have POURED ALL the BEST I have to give into my offerings.

 

If you feel fear or resistance but something deeper inside that says YES ~

listen to the YES!! I promise you won’t regret it.

 

If not now, then when? It is so easy to put off our pleasure, healing, and expansion for

another day, while our inner spark continues to wither away.

If you feel that spark ignited here and now, follow it! 

 

I will be here to hold your hand through the fire of transformation, the water of your emotions, the surge of your pleasure, and the power of your EMBODIED RECLAMATION.

 

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'Our sexuality carries the greatest wounding of the human psyche given that the world’s dominant worldviews are shaped by thousands of years of religious and political subjugation of the body (and sexuality) at large.' Thus it is opening our sexuality that we free not only our body, but also our psyche.

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